Communication Patterns and Financial Stability as Predictors of Marital Adjustment among Polygamous Couples in Zaria, Kaduna State: Implications for Marital Counselling
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This article investigates the dynamics of marital satisfaction in polygynous marriages within Zaria, Nigeria. It employs a mixed methods approach to explore how communication patterns and financial stability influence marital adjustment. Key findings reveal that effective communication, perceived fairness in resource allocation by the husband, and culturally supported conflict resolution strategies are all significant predictors of marital satisfaction in polygynous families. The study emphasizes the importance of open communication regarding finances, child-rearing practices, and emotional needs to foster trust and cooperation among spouses. It highlights the detrimental effects of favouritism and unequal treatment and the importance of emotional intelligence for navigating complex emotions inherent in polygynous structures. This research contributes to the existing body of knowledge, among others, by reinforcing the critical role of communication and fairness in promoting marital adjustment within polygynous marriages, establishing a positive association between financial stability and marital satisfaction in polygynous families, and demonstrating the link between personal satisfaction, particularly wives' perception of fairness and emotional support from their husbands, and overall marital adjustment. Based on the study's findings, the following practical recommendations are proposed to improve marital adjustment within Zarian polygynous families: Tailored counselling services designed to promote effective communication and conflict resolution skills among spouses; Educational programs for religious leaders and potential husbands on fostering fairness and healthy communication practices within polygynous marriages; Training for couples in emotional intelligence to equip them with the tools to navigate the complexities of polygynous relationships.
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Halima Muazu Dalhatu, Federal College of Education, Zaria.
Guidance and Counselling,
Federal College of Education, Zaria.
Maryam Aliyu Muhammad, Federal College of Education, Zaria.
Guidance and Counselling,
Federal College of Education, Zaria.
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