“Streaming Grace, Hidden Pain”
Paul's Despair and Pastoral Mental Health Struggles in the Digital Church
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In an era of digital pulpits, pastors face unprecedented mental and emotional demands, an increasingly recognized yet under-addressed issue in today's digital church contexts. Despite the academic consideration of the impact of pastoral mental health struggles, there remains a significant gap in New Testament-based models of emotional resilience and communal care. This study examines Paul's intense despair in 2 Corinthians 1:8–11 and Elijah's collapse in 1 Kings 19:4-18 to explore the tension between public grace and private pain in a digitally driven ministry age. Through exegetical analysis of key biblical texts alongside contemporary research on digital ministry challenges, this paper develops a biblically grounded, contextually relevant model for pastoral mental health care. The research reveals that emotional vulnerability in spiritual leadership is biblically legitimate and should not be equated with spiritual failure. It emphasizes communal rescue, trusted relationships, rest, de-stigmatization, and shared spiritual and practical support as essential responses to emotional exhaustion, especially in the high-pressure landscape of digital ministry shaped by curated perfectionism and constant expectations. The study recommends that churches create intentional structures of communal support, peer relationships, and restorative rhythms to address the hidden emotional burdens of church leaders and ensure holistic pastoral well-being in the digital age.
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Caleb Jesujoba OPELAMI, Department of Religion and Development Studies, Faculty of Humanities, Ajayi Crowther University, Oyo, Nigeria.
I am a researcher of New Testament exegesis and African Contextualization with Ajayi Crowther University, Nigeria and my research explores the intersection of psychology, mental health, spirituality, with New Testament studies, with particular interests in exegesis in NT relating to trauma, resilience, psychological well-being, pastoral care, and faith-informed approaches to mental health with African contextualization
Job Oluremi OKUNOYE, Department of Religion and Development Studies, Faculty of Humanities, Ajayi Crowther University, Oyo, Nigeria.
Associate Professor of Old Testament.
Department of Religion and Development Studies, Faculty of Humanities
Ajayi Crowther University, Oyo.
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